Mary Kathleen (Kay)
Hughes '66
Kay
Hughes embodies the advice she gives to students: “Make sure
you fi nd something you love to do and do it with joy and
good humor.” Whatever the role–teacher, moderator, advocate,
volunteer or fundraiser –Kay plunges in and gives her all.
She taught English at Marian High School, an IHM-sponsored
institution in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan, for 34 years and
retired in June as chairperson of the English Department. In
the classroom, she infused her literature and writing classes
with a sense of social justice and responsibility to do something
to counter injustice. In reading and discussing The Grapes
of Wrath by John Steinbeck, the young women discovered that
hard work alone could not always overcome the disadvantages
of place and class, that the playing field was not necessarily
level. Students were encouraged to write letters to the newspaper
in protest or support for a cause they believed in.
Former student Dr. Gabriella Civil told of her experience
at Marian, “I felt keenly my difference as a young, black,
displaced Detroiter from my predominantly white, upper-middle
class, suburban classmates. How wonderful it was, then, to
have Ms. Hughes take me under her wing. She encouraged and
nurtured my love of literature and writing. She exposed me
and other students to art, theater and opera…and took a group
of us to the first-ever Marygrove African-American Writer in
Residence reading, an event that transformed my life.” Dr.
Civil now teaches English at the College of St. Catherine,
St. Paul, Minnesota.
Among her out-of-the-classroom activities were the formation
of The Film Club and the Arts and Humanities Club. She also
organized an annual student trip to the Stratford (Ontario)
Festival of Shakespearean and Modern Drama. Kay also put together
a Marian Alumnae Book Club.
Kay was a member of the committee that established the Royal
Blue Classic, an annual golf outing benefit for the IHM Sisters.
Since inception, the golf event has netted more than $400,000.
She also works on fundraisers for breast cancer awareness,
St. Patrick’s Senior Center in Midtown Detroit and Focus: HOPE.
Kay goes beyond check writing and actually serves lunches at
St. Pat’s and marches in the annual Focus: HOPE Walk as well
as participating in many other causes.
“She is the epitome of the IHM Belief Statement, which she
helped integrate into the Marian community,” says Marian colleague
Barbara Jones. “We proudly posted Kay’s letter to the editor
published in the Detroit Free Press, which supported the IHM
order, protested against Catholic school closings in Detroit
and spoke out against many unjust social and political issues.”
Jones continues, citing many activities for students, “Kay
is fostering self-motivation, flexibility and openness to change.”
After graduating from Marygrove, Kay honed her teaching skills
and her emphasis on social justice in stints in Puerto Rico
and the Dominican Republic before coming to Marian High School
in 1973.
Classmate Kathy Callahan recalls, “After being diagnosed with
cancer, not once but twice, Kay’s determination and conviction
that she ‘is here for a purpose’ not only led to healing but
to many of these great accomplishments and a renewed dedication
to her teaching and her students. Her illness helped her to
see what is really important.”
Perhaps retirement will afford Kay more time for the cooking
and entertaining she loves. She plans to spend a month in Italy
and take a cooking class there. She describes her family including
Grandma, Mom, her sisters and brothers as being great cooks
and a bit competitive. Since sister Eileen is a professional
chef, she usually wins all the “contests,” says Kay.
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